so i wanted to write a blog post about sex. not the whole immature teenage me yelling penis a bunch of times and giggling, but not the whole im going to discribe it to you thing either because one i have not had sex so i cannot discribe it. and two when i say i wanna talk about it, write a blog i wanted to discuss how the whole idea of sex has seemed to be considered bad in alot of our socioty. yes i can see how it would be bad to rush into it i guess, if you dont love the person cause there can be that feeling of lonleyness afterwords. but it seems that in todays day and age we still get told what is normal and what is not in this area of our lives.

alot of this appers to come from the church. and other areas. so not to be one of thoes people who goes on a rant saying the chruch is bad. it says we cant do this. it says this is bad. the church is pigion holding us. i will start by saying yes it does appear that way. but being somone who used to go to chruch, and youth group i cant help but attempt to see what they are trying to do. we are not told that we cannot do things by the church because the church wants to hold us down. but because in their eyes they think they are helping us. protecting us. cause i know from all my former church and youth group days the pastor would always say how god was like a father. and trying to protect us. so as a protective father he wants whats best. now im not also trying to go fully to the side of the church im just attmepting to find some sort of middle ground. anyway as god being a father he would only say dont do something becasue in the long wrong it does us harm.

so when the church says something about sex is wrong, or along thoes terms we should not doing this. although i may not agree with them, and dont agree in alot of aspects. i do respect that the main goal of them saying this was not to say your bad, your evil, eww what are you doing. but what to try to keep us heathy and happy and safe in the long run.

but anyway yes so i wanted to to right a blog post about sex and the aspects of it in todays socioty and i thought wow i dont really know if i have that much information myself to write a thoughtfull blog on this so i decided to go and to look stuff up on the internet (yay interwebs). and i ended up reading an article on the web site that i found really interesting. it kinda sums up some of the stuff that i was thinking about and what i wanted to kind of write about. so here is the link.
please read and enjoy.

http://www.radicalleft.net/blog/_archives/2007/7/22/3107594.html